Dear Ladies and Gents: Before moving onto your next relationship, please remember to finish up with the previous one. Meaning that if you still have trust issues, the urge to be unfaithful, baby daddy/baby mama drama stemming from your ex, you need to resolve those things FIRST. It’s impossible to invest yourself fully into the next relationship when you still have one foot in the last one. It’s impossible to become tight with the next person when you have so many loose ends with your ex. The reason things like this happens is because people make moves before they actually make decisions. Unresolved issues are just like untied shoelaces: they will eventually trip you up in the end. That is all.